Go be a family man. If there is anything that can be believed in, it’s that, always that.
Q:so i wanted to share my story with you guys since alot of people well i meet my now boyfriend a year ago on omegle and from the moment i seen him i knew i needed him and that he was someone i would be with his little laughs and idek but we are going to be 1 year and a month on August 2nd we've meet 2 times he flew here i flew here im just here to tell anyone were not as far as some people but we are almost 2,000 miles away so never lose faith in your love one <3
Aw that’s really sweet, I’m happy for you both :) Thank you for sharing your story with us. ^^
- Him: I'm your weakness, just as you are mine
- Me: This is true. You're also my strength though
- Him: And you are my peace, which gives me strength
Q:Hey! i saw people were talking about their long distance? so I thought id share mine. 2 years ago in November i met this guy that lives 3,500 miles away from me. At first we were just super good friends. well anyways, in may of 2013 he was too scared to ask me out thinking id say no. so i had to do all the work with that. we broke up that august, but still talked and have gotten better, and we still love eachother. everyday gets better and i turn 18 in april and am planning to finally meet him<3
It’s good that you’re working through whatever issues there are and staying in touch, if you can get past the rough patches, you’ll just end up a stronger couple in the end :) Thank you for sharing!
Q:Hi. I'm in an LDR and we're going to reach 5 months soon. Technically it's 4 since we broke up for a week or so but we like to think of it as a "cool off" time and keep the 5 month record. I'm 15 and he's 13 (although he's turning 14 in August.). Anyway, I don't know how to feel sometimes. I know he loves me a lot, and it really shows. But it makes me insecure because he's from the UK and I'm just from the Phils. There are so many pretty girls there PLUS he has a lot of friends that are girls.
Where you are from doesn’t make you inferior, and there are pretty girls everywhere but you know what, he chose to be with you over anyone else didn’t he? And you are a beautiful girl my dear, you have no reason to feel insecure :) I can understand being bothered a bit about him having a lot of female friends, but you can’t worry about something that isn’t actually a problem yet. You just have to trust that he’ll choose you regardless of someone else showing interest.
Q:I'm in need of some advice. I'm in a ldr. Saturday is going to be a year and 2 months. We are stuck right now because we still haven't made plans to meet each other in person. He hates talking about it, and then ignores me. I don't think he's ready to move on in our relationship. What do I do? :(
Has he given any kind of reason for why he doesn’t want to talk about it? I’ll be honest, that doesn’t give off a good vibe to me at all. It would be one thing if you’d only been together a couple of months or something but it’s been over a year, you’ve both already invested a lot of time into this relationship. If you feel like it’s just fear of moving forward, it might be a good idea to reassure him that you aren’t going anywhere, regardless of how long it takes to meet in person and see how he responds to that. I also think you should ask straight out why he acts like he doesn’t want to meet, and tell him how that affects you. Hopefully that can open a dialogue and you can make progress. However if he still shuts down or gets defensive, that’s a really big red flag that he’s hiding something or hasn’t been honest in some way.
Q:This blog was exactly what I needed. My boyfriend moved four hours away almost two months ago, and sometimes I get incredibly emotional and lonely (especially near my period), and you guys have helped me calm down, so thank you!
I’m really glad it has helped you, I definitely know how that is xD
Q:Meeting in weird online places? I met my once boyfriend, on Runescape (gaming). We live 600 miles apart and I've seen him twice when we were together. We still like eachother and talk everyday but he doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore.
Online gaming is a great way to meet people with similar interests these days. I’m sorry to hear you broke up but since you are still close, it sounds like there’s still a chance things could work out. Good luck :)
Even if neither of us amount to anything more than ordinary people with extraordinary love, I will be so proud of who you are.